Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Hope Floats the Financial Boat

If you're not actively pursuing a dream of your own, you may be a passenger in someone else's boat, going to the destination of their choice.

Now, that can a great place to be, if you believe the captain knows what he's doing, and if you trust that he's taking you and the crew somewhere important and wonderful.

But you might determine that the boat you're on isn't taking you where you want to go financially.

You have options; there are other boats passing by, going to other destinations, but it isn't always easy to find a vessel that has all of the benefits you'd like to enjoy, and which will welcome you aboard.

So, you might vessel-hop for a while, until you find one that seems perfect for you.

Maybe your "perfect" ship travels quickly, provides abundantly for all your wants and needs, and is so big that you can't even feel the waves beating against it.

But there's no guarantee that it won't spring a leak, and that the captain won't send you away in a little dinghy without long-term supplies. It's even possible that you'll just have to abandon ship altogether with not so much as a life vest. Maybe you end up just treading water, hoping for another ship to come along before you go under for good.

Have you ever felt that way?

For the entrepreneur at heart, it doesn't matter how big, fast, and beautiful the boat is; traveling in someone else's vessel will never completely fulfill his/her needs. There's something inside that says, "I may be headed in the right direction on this vessel, but I won't rest until I'm steering my own ship. I need the freedom to change course directions at will."

Whether you leave the ship by choice or not, finding yourself in the water can be terrifying, especially if you never learned how to swim.

Think about it: what is the natural reaction of a non-swimmer who is thrown into deep waters?

They panic, and thrash violently. They become consumed with the fear of, "What if I go under and can't come back up?!" Full of adrenaline and in order to avoid the worst, they claw and pound the water, in a frantic effort to stay afloat.

Eventually, if they don't get some help, they go under out of sheer exhaustion.

If you've had to abandon ship recently, leaving your regular source of income to go out on your own in search of another boat, you may feel like the non-swimmer, fully exposed to choppy waters, surrounded by the mysterious depths, and at risk of drowning in bills and other pressures.

The natural inclination is to panic, and work too hard frantically trying to stay afloat - ultimately wearing yourself out and sinking into despair.

The truth is, that the principles which keep a new swimmer afloat in the water are the same principles that keep you afloat financially... and here they are:
1) Take a deep breath,
2) Relax, and
3) Keep your chin up
That's how you stay afloat in the water, and that's how you stay afloat financially, too.

Financial freedom does not create peace of mind; financial freedom begins with peace of mind.


Only after you discover that you can float, will you be able to learn how to swim efficiently. People who enjoy financial freedom have learned to swim in choppy waters without being overcome by exhaustion.

And it only works when you stay calm. When you are calm, you float; not just in water, but with finances, too.

Discover the truth of this and you may also discover that swimming peacefully allows you to get where you want to go without a boat at all.

(The unseen current can take you farther than you ever thought possible, if you let it... if you don't fight it.)

So, breathe... relax... keep your chin up... and trust the current to take you to the next boat or port on your journey to financial freedom.

8 Comments:

Blogger sgrGODSway said...

Leslie, I agree whole-heartedly. I have been free from a job for 3 years now and I have been on a few boats and in the water...but God always covers my family.

4:47 PM  
Blogger Andrew said...

How Sweet was that! Nice! Thank you..

5:26 PM  
Blogger Danielle said...

I feel like we'd do better if I were making the income. In fact, I've had to go to work to help out and dh is working less and bringing in less than ever and it's been a very rocky 5 years. How can things improve and leave the mother not working? Many of the LofA stay at home moms end up going to work to make this happen, like you. Thanks.

7:18 PM  
Blogger Cristie said...

Wonderful! And how nice to know that in heavy "Cs"--chaos, credit crunch, cashloss, crises--we can take that deep breath, make the appropriate Course Correction, and keep moving. thanks for the great reminder, Leslie!

7:51 PM  
Blogger Kate W said...

Thank you Leslie! A reminder to not let the pressures take control and just breathe and stay in the present moment and know that God is with me.

4:40 AM  
Blogger sd said...

I'm very interested to hear your thoughts on Danielle's comment. I've known several women in that situation.

6:10 PM  
Blogger Leslie said...

What I have to say about it is not an answer that can be adequately addressed in a blog post reply.

(Besides, Danielle may not consider my response valid anyway, since according to her, I am one of those working moms.)

Nevertheless, for the record, it is just ONE of the main issues being addressed in the sequel of the Jackrabbit Factor. I've been working on it since last December and finally finished the first draft last week.

Women who face this dilemma will have something new to chew on that may not have ever crossed their minds before. I expect it to be encouraging, enlightening, and a tool for instilling hope.

I regret that it's not done (and available) already. Life required that I first experience a few things personally, before I was going to be qualified to write what it contains. Those experiences happened during the first half of this year.

I simply couldn't have completed it any sooner, and am now more excited than ever to get it out asap. Stay tuned... and thanks for your patience and understanding.

8:04 PM  
Blogger Bill Henderson said...

Leslie,

I have spent a lot of time and money keeping other boats afloat. It is time to invest into my own ship building. The economic storms are upon us and this is the time when the captian of the ship really gets to learn how to sail. I am looking forward to honing my skills on my ship in the wrath of the storms.

10:23 PM  

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