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A Vote for Broccoli
Adversity Before Prosperity
Are you more like a Radio or an IPOD?
Finding Peace And Prosperity In The Storms Of Life
Goal Achievement as Easy as Breathing
Goal Achieving Strategy - Thinking Prosperity In Spite Of Appearances
Goal For It! The Magic of Writing it Down
Heavenly Help with Money ...Matters
How to KNOW if You'll Reach the Goal
Prosperity Tip - For Working Mothers Who Struggle With Guilt
Prosperity Tip - How Many Goals At A Time?
Prosperity Tool - The Stickman Concept
Success and Balance
The Parable of the Jackrabbit
The Truth About Failure
These Prosperity 'Laws' Aren't Working!
Think 'Prosperity' But Behave Frugally
Forced R & R Finding the good in something "bad"
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'It's Perfect': The Mindset that fixes Everything
I had one week left to prepare for an important event where
I would be presenting some critical information about a
business deal to some very important people. A knot
would tighten in my gut each time I thought about it, but I
consciously did my best to breathe deeply and relax,
knowing the best outcome would happen if I could only
stay in a peaceful mindset.
The night before the presentation I wasn't quite prepared,
and I knew it... not for lack of trying, but merely for a lack
of time. I stayed up most of the night putting together the
last of my research, trying to line it up to be a cohesive,
logical persuasion for those who would be making a
decision the next day. How well I did at the meeting could
mean the difference between thousands of dollars down the
tubes, or putting us potentially more than $100,000 ahead
within 2 more months.
Not long before I was to speak at the meeting, I was given
some new information about others who would be in the
room who I had not expected... which added to my
pressure. Besides allowing myself to become overly
concerned with 'what should I wear?!' I also had to be
concerned with whether or not my equipment would work
properly with no time to test it thoroughly first.
As the meeting began, I knew I had done all I could
possibly do to prepare. I had to trust that my best would be
good enough, and that my faith in God would help make up
for my human deficiencies. It would have to... there was
nothing more I could do.
While I intellectually relied on God to make it all 'okay', I
couldn't seem to quiet my stressed-out, frantic heart. I was
flustered, lost my train of thought frequently, and basically
'blew it'. The opportunity to secure $100,000 slipped
through my fingers as I pushed myself to just get through
the meeting and finish saying what I went there to say.
I felt sick inside. What more could I have done? I had
given it everything I had. I knew the principles... I knew
that 'when something is really, really horrible, it is in
actuality really, really phenomenal...' but no matter how
hard I tried to think right, I couldn't seem to shake the
feeling that it had been a disaster, and nothing more.
I tried to call my mentor to help me get my head back on
straight, because I knew that was critical if I hoped to glean
whatever benefit there was out of the situation. I HAD to
think right, for I knew that my future beneficial
circumstances depended on it. However, I couldn't get
through, and my messages were never returned, as though
they had never been left in the first place.
Finally, I thought of an old friend of mine who I knew
would understand and could help. Why I didn't think of her
first, I'm not sure. I gave her a call, and she laughed with
me as I told her how pathetic the meeting had been, and
after I had let it all out, she told me one thing that made all
the difference.
She said, 'Leslie, the meeting was perfect. You did your
best, and everything that needed to be said was said in just
the right way. Those people heard just what they needed to
hear, and anyway, who do you think YOU are to decide
what should and shouldn't have been said?'
I knew she was right. I had done my best to prepare, and I
had turned it over to God... and so who DID I think I was to
pass judgement on what God made of it? Suddenly, I
began to consider that maybe my mistakes were exactly
what God knew would happen, and what He allowed to
happen because He had some higher good in mind for me
and the others involved.
Who am I to say that the deal should have happened the
way I had wanted it to happen, anyway? One thing for
sure, is that when something doesn't go the way I think it
should have, it's generally because God has something even
better in mind, and He is working to knock off my rough
edges to prepare me to receive the very best He has to
offer.
I choose to believe that.
There are a lot of things I may never know about what
ripple effects came out of that meeting. I have since been
made aware of some very important ones that did. But if
nothing more, it has given me a new tool for the times I am
struggling to feel better about a bad situation. I tell myself
now, 'It's perfect' even when I don't see how it possibly could be.
Even the most painful, difficult circumstances in our lives
are ultimately for our good. They give us experience, they
teach us right from wrong, they help us grow toward our
greatest potential if we don't fight it.
Okay, so I messed up a presentation. I don't really have it
all that bad, do I? Worse things have happened, and
besides, in some way, I know that it was all for my good. I
came away a little tougher, a little more compassionate, a
little more trusting in God.
Whatever seems horrible in your life right now, you can
choose to trust... choose to believe that it's the perfect
thing for your personal development right now. As you
calm down and believe this, you'll find that it makes a
huge difference in where your life goes from here.
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