Strengthening the Pull of a Magnetic Personality
© Leslie Householder
Author of #5 National Best-seller, "The Jackrabbit Factor: Why You Can"
ThoughtsAlive.com

I have been in front of many audiences. I remember having that gut-wrenching feeling in the pit of my stomach as I anticipated speaking in front of a group of strangers for days before the event. I don't feel that way anymore, I get very excited and look forward to each opportunity I have to be in that kind of situation.

What changed? Sure, we can get used to it, we become comfortable, knowing that it is never truly fatal. Even the most embarrasing of moments pale over time. (Like the time I tried to be clever by holdinga small plate of creme pie in the palm of my hand, and turning it under my arm, around behind my elbow, up over my shoulder and back to the original position. The plate stayed upright, but the pie flew to the floor in front of the directors' table of the convention and in view of the other 500 guests.)

But more importantly, I learned how our frame of mind emits a sort of "vibration" that people pick up on. If you are cheerful, people are drawn to that. People like to be around people that make them feel good. But this can be taken one step further, and I hope you test this out for yourself:

When you meet someone new, you do NOT have to worry about whether or not they like you. To entertain that worry puts you into a "negative vibration" because "worry" is negative. All you have to do is LIKE THEM. You can choose to like an individual, and by liking them, you send out the very vibration that will actually draw them to return the feeling. Keep this principle alive in your life and you will always have an abundance of friends. Remember this key idea and you can be confident in a room full of strangers. "Love your neighbor" (Matthew 22:37-39). It is a timeless principle well applied. If you plant that seed, you'll surely reap a harvest of good company (Gal 6:7-8).

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